Birthdays, anniversary to me are the most important days to remember if you are married.
I don’t remember my step kids birthday but my wife’s birthday i do remember and the other important days that i listed above. But i do try to make those days little different.
I try to stretch it out for a few days, like one day i will get a small box of sweets, second day i would make a plate of strawberry’s and bananas with chocolate over them sliced, then the third day is when we go out to eat to a place she like at that time.
What do you do on those special days for your love ones.